This is an intriguing and thought-provoking true story, so much so that some have doubted its veracity. Indeed at some points it beggars belief but the whole thing rings true to me. It is written by a modern, free-spirited and educated young woman who was brought up conventionally but who was never going to fit into the pattern expected by her family and friends.
She is plenty old and worldly wise enough to know her own mind as her life changes entirely. Prior to a bikers’ convention at Sturgis, South Dakota she reads a book (Lakota Woman) by Mary Crow Dog of the dispossessed and impoverished Lakota Indian people. She persuades her biker boyfriend to detour to their reservation at Pine Ridge, wanting to learn more to take back to supplement her college work.
In 1890 the remnants of Custer’s 7th Cavalry murdered hundreds of Lakota people, including women and children, burying the bodies in a mass grave. Little White Bird (LWB, we never get to know her birth name) visits the reservation and the mass grave. There she has her epiphany, and describes it with some powerful writing.
I heard the Ancestors from the 1890 Massacre calling to me. Their dead voices became alive, rising from the ground, screaming from the sky and earth, their whirling swirled around me, creating the wind… Everything inside my body and mind, heart and spirit, was swept away. Like the sirens singing to the Greek mythological warriors, luring them to their deaths as their sweet, hypnotic voices made their boats crash upon the rocks, the Ancestors called to me.
LWB’s boat crashed upon the rocks. She is mesmerised by the Lakota nation and Chief Two Bear Paws. And it’s at this point, when she agrees to live with him on the reservation as his wife that the real story begins.
It’s a riveting description of real life on the Pine Ridge reservation. But it will horrify most modern women. There is nothing heroic about the modern Lakota people. The men have lost their hunting, the women their tipis, they have no identity only their traditions. In their poverty they are as materialistic as the rest of modern America.
The Chief treats LWB cruelly, as a chattel, with no hint of affection. And what is remarkable is that she continues to love him, accepting the hardships, determined to help put right the wrongs done by the White Man.
She tries to leave him more than once. He brutally assaults her. She finally leaves for good…no! She comes back again, unbelievably.
There are so many truths told here. The Indians despise the White Man and no show of remorse or reparation will change that. Those that see the Indians as ‘noble’ will need to think again. And on another level it is worrying how much abuse and disdain a woman can take and keep coming back for more.
A remarkable book, one you should read and draw your own conclusions.
Terry McCarthy said:
The tourist’s impression of Native Americans has long since not been one related to ‘nobility’. Ripping tourists off for crap food at the Grand Canyon, obese tribe members dishing up food in all-you-can-eat Casino restaurants. Probably now lying around getting ill from having let their land to fracking companies. A very unwholesome story from the moment the white man set foot on “their” territory.
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Roy McCarthy said:
From the little I know that seems spot on. A sad situation indeed.
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Britt Skrabanek said:
Sounds very interesting…intense, but interesting.
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Roy McCarthy said:
Intense certainly, and a fascinating and insightful story. Makes one rethink one’s own perceptions of people and why they think and act the way they do. Have a good week Britt.
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Jill Weatherholt said:
Thanks for the review, Roy. It sounds like a riveting story and the fact that it’s true makes it that much better.
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Roy McCarthy said:
Best non-fiction I’ve read in ages Jill.
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Red Hen said:
Oppression creates bitterness rather than nobility. And the oppressed tend to oppress when they come into positions of power.That book sounds like a very painfilled read, Roy.
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Roy McCarthy said:
Correct on both counts RH, but I’m all the wiser having read it.
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Letizia said:
This seems like a difficult but thought-provoking read. Will have to get in the right mindset for this one as reading about violence is always tough, but it sounds like it’s worth taking the journey and learning about this experience.
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Roy McCarthy said:
No so much physical violence to be fair, but it was never far below the surface. Worse was the arrogance of the men and the meek acceptance of the women. That culture difference is what is difficult to understand.
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Jane Fritz said:
Thanks for bringing this book to light, Roy. There are some powerful novels by first nations people in Canada that go some way to explaining/describing the dysfunction that overwhelms life on many reserves, although not all. It’s largely a result of oppression, of the introduction of alcohol, removal of people from their native land, which took away their ability to feed themselves and be near their spiritual foundation, and in Canada at least the removal of their children to residential schools where they were taught that all things Indian, including their language and spirituality, were unworthy. They had their dignity removed. White man has a lot to answer for, but we seem to have very few answers. BTW, you meant that most modern men would be horrified too, right?!
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Roy McCarthy said:
Hello Jane. Yes I think I was reasonably aware of the facts beforehand though I haven’t read the Native American literature. This was an unusual perspective though from a white woman who has a pure heart and who was moved to want to live as one of the Lakota for the rest of her life. She was treated with utter disdain, though the Chief spent all her money and took all her possessions. She accepted all this to prove she was worthy to be one of them. It wasn’t ever going to be enough. There clearly are no answers and the clock can’t be turned back.
Yes it was shocking for me as well even though I’m well aware of the power that some men can and do exert over the women in their lives.
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Jane Fritz said:
It sounds like a lose-lose situation; she never stood a chance. Sorry if I sounded strident. I have trouble dealing with this topic; it’s at the top of my list of things I’d like to help change, yet I know I can’t.
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Browsing the Atlas said:
Sounds intriguing and very different. My step-father loved Native American literature and stories about Indians. It never appealed as much to me, but every now and then he’d bring me a b get hooked.
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Roy McCarthy said:
A different perspective for sure – not too many non-natives get to live within a tribe (and it was meant to be permanent) and experience the way they live and to see first-hand their entrenched attitudes. I suppose one ought to be cautious of extrapolating LWB’s experience to the whole Indian nation.
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CLARE SCOTT said:
Thanks Roy, looks like its well worth a read. I travelled through some of the reservations in the States and the modern native American is indeed different from the romanticised historic version. I have read a couple of other authors , Sherman Alexie and Thomas King who write about the way it is now. Heart breaking stuff. Must give this a look see.
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Roy McCarthy said:
Thanks Clare – that must have been educational. Have you formed any firm opinions as a result? I ought to read more on the subject – I only read this one as I was asked to review it.
I probably ought to say that LWB experienced some real affection and sympathy at times, from the women and children in particular.
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CLARE SCOTT said:
I guess I find it hard to have an opinion about someone elses culture when I have only visited as a tourist..and anything I say may seem patronising to individuals of that culture. Maybe its all in the nature of change, I don’t know. I must give that a read some time. Leslie Marmon Silko is another writer but I have to say I found it hard to get into her stuff, very literary 🙂 Priscilla Cogan has some pretty accessible novels on modern Native Americans finding their way too.
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Roy McCarthy said:
It seems to me that displaced people everywhere find it difficult to respond positively to any gesture or friendship extended to them. Maybe there are those who try to build bridges but this book didn’t give much hope.
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Bailey said:
No one who is not Native and has not experienced that deep grief that is in our DNA can speak of it. I have met SOOO many little white birds.. she has no credibility having come from a very white background and having spent only six months on a reservation.
This is a disgusting example of cultural vulturism. But, when people pay a complete charlatan like James Arthur Ray 10,000 to be frozen and cooked, it is not surprising that people would give this woman credibility.
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Roy McCarthy said:
Thank you for taking the time to comment and I have no problem with opposing views made with respect.
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roughwighting said:
What a book – and what a book review! Another reviewer would have made me wonder if I wanted to read such a depressing story, but your review interests me and also makes me ponder about the inequalities and inconsistencies of the world. We’d like to make the Native Americans all ‘noble’ from the injustices done to them, but we have a hard time with how they handle their struggles. We’d like to applaud this woman for hearing her ancestors and wanting to make a wrong, right, but we cringe at the abuse she takes. WoW.
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Roy McCarthy said:
Thanks Pam. It’s a must-read but not all will come to the same conclusions.
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danadane72 said:
Has anyone here who commented ever spent time in Pine Ridge, getting to know people there? Or are you all putting us down for all you can eat buffets as if that was invented by us and casinos as if we invented that too?
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Roy McCarthy said:
Point taken, thank you for making it.
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brucethomasw said:
Hello danadane – I have been to Pine Ridge 2 times, and my wife Francis once – each time to visit the memorial of the wounded knee massacre. We also visited the college, although we did not personally meet anyone for any length of time.
Over the years, I have advocated for the release of the innocent political prisoner Leonard Peltier, and Francis has also done much work in collaboration with other Amerindians and First Nations people in Canada.
The gulf of misunderstanding you express is true and real and it is the unspoken shame of white north america that is our own personal Apartheid system. From the bottom of my heart – I am dedicated to obliteration of this oprresion – I and others, are with you in this struggle.
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jaidagreyeagle said:
“It’s a riveting description of real life on the Pine Ridge reservation. But it will horrify most modern women. There is nothing heroic about the modern Lakota people. The men have lost their hunting, the women their tipis, they have no identity only their traditions. In their poverty they are as materialistic as the rest of modern America.”
As a modern Lakota woman, I found this statement to be quite offensive. ALL of my heroes are modern day Lakota women and men. Lakota women, are absolutely the strongest people I have ever met in my life and trust me, I have traveled pretty damn far on this planet.
However, I am not ignorant to the living conditions on the reservation but her statements of hotels that advertised “actual running water” and “people living in trash piles” is beyond the reality. I am sorry that what happened to LWB happened to her, nobody should have to go through that, but to take one persons tale of one family and spinning that into such bold statements about an entire race of people is not only abhorrent it’s ignorant.
I am deeply offended and hurt by your words and wonder, have you read much else on the Lakota people? Have you ever met one of us, in real life? Shook our hands? Conversed? Please, I urge you to do some research on this woman’s book before taking it to heart because if what you have written has stemmed solely from her book, I can not imagine what other damage it will cause.
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Roy McCarthy said:
Thank you. In answer to your last paragraph, no I simply reviewed this book and gave my brief thoughts on it. I also invited others to read it and draw their own conclusions. I don’t believe anyone is going to take a book review in isolation as definitive. I am also quite happy to share criticism of it and contrary views as you have so eloquently done.
Do you have recommendations for further reading?
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N Jostein said:
I haven’t read this book… and would most likely never do so… simply because… as Nordic and also Indigenous… i am fed up with Europeans people re-writing “The noble savage” thru out the centuries mainly based on the disability when it comes to relating to others… as fellow human beings… which was also why the massacre at Wounded Knee happened… because the USE ( United States of Europeans) has a long tradition of dehumanizing people who’s land they are on!
I personally met a lot of Good and Strong people at Pine Ridge, i learned a lot even in a short time… and i leave it up to them to tell their story.
But if i would write a book it would be about the “European” perception… and myths.. and established racism towards the people there and NDN country…
To Little lost white privileged bird… and people who share her views i have only this to say… people are people where ever you go.. we are more than 99% alike regardless!
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Roy McCarthy said:
Thank you for your comments and for sharing your perspective.
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Rez Chick said:
Recommendations for further reading http://www.lastrealindians.com Listen to our success stories, our stories of being survivors of the hand that was dealt to us, instead of portraying ourselves as victims. Our people who fight the fight day in and day out so others will listen. When we write of our past and the over 500 years of attempted genocide on our people, we are told to get over it, it is the past. No one wants to listen. Yet, one woman’s account of her story…where she lies on twitter straight up about being her own publisher, her story of six months on our reservation and no one tells her to get over it? Instead they want to talk about what kind of horrible people we are as if we are the people they painted us to be. We are all humans. Including Shelly Ott a/k/a Little White Bird. You are welcome to read my book review also, although the opinions expressed here before the previous three already sound close minded.
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Roy McCarthy said:
Hi, I’m firewalled out of that site it seems. Anything else you’d recommend, downloadable from Amazon? The Mary Crow Dog book perhaps?
I don’t think anyone here is close minded and would be happy to read other contemporary accounts.
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Rez Chick said:
Reading the comments about what horrible people wwe really are is very close minded, there are hundreds of books. by Gyasi Ross, Louise Erdich, Adrian Louis, Ella Deloria’s “WaterLily” is my favorite. Joseph Marshall’s The Lakota Way, Vine Deloria, I can go on and on about our own writers. These are my heroes. They do not paint us out to be noble heroes but rather how we (as a people) have survived hundreds of years of oppression and live to tell our own stories.
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Roy McCarthy said:
No, close minded is if you are exposed to a range of views but choose to ignore most of them. This is a single book, my take on it, and comments based on that take. I’ll be reading one or two of your suggested books, thank you.
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Rez Chick said:
But one can not comment about our people if they never met them….one woman’s take from one of her abusive relationships is not who we are. I actually think the whole book is a scheme between her and the man to make money because she still sells his artwork at book signings, still professes her love to him. My take on the comments on your take on the book is they are close minded, so is my take wrong?
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Roy McCarthy said:
In an ideal world we’d all comment only with wide knowledge of all the issues – in the meantime nobody says nothing. Isn’t it better to open up a subject, listen to other points of view, read other material, and then perhaps adjust one’s views if applicable?
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Rez Chick said:
My review is here.
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brucethomasw said:
Hi Roy – thanks for this review. You see that I commented above.
I’d also like to introduce and recommend a link to a well loved Canadian writer and broadcaster – proffesor Thomas King http://www.cbc.ca/ideas/massey-archives/2003/11/07/massey-lectures-2003-the-truth-about-stories-a-native-narrative/
Thanks for facilitating this discussion because open communication and respectful listening is the only way out of the hate and discrimination that is rampant throughout the world – and, as Nelson Mandela leaves legacy to – what we really need is truth and reonciliation.
Peace to you and best reagrds – Bruce
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Roy McCarthy said:
Well said Bruce and thanks for posting this.
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Rubiwee said:
So a white woman spends six months on a reservation and she’s now an expert on their culture? This is incredibly offensive to all Native Americans and the author should be ashamed of herself. Let the native people speak for themselves!
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Roy McCarthy said:
To be fair I don’t think she ever claimed that. It is one person’s point of view and it is open to informed criticism. Thank you for taking the time to comment.
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