I loved you in the morning, our kisses deep and warm
Your hair upon the pillow like a sleepy golden storm (Leonard Cohen)
So true love does exist. OK, I’m convinced. But the Nan Le Ruez story is far from complete. As we saw in Part 1 her happy first marriage produced four sons. All were born in the south of England at places where her husband was stationed. But, as is the way of things, Alfred died, suddenly in 1985 in Spalding, Lincolnshire and left Nan a widow.
Rewind to that happiest of days in Jersey’s history 9th May 1945. The day some thought would never arrive. One of the first British servicemen to come ashore was Sub-Lieutenant Jimmy Cooper. By chance he exchanged a few words with the lovely Nan Le Ruez, one of many in the overjoyed and welcoming crowd of islanders. Though they went their separate ways neither quite forgot that brief encounter.
Nan was eventually persuaded to publish her diaries. In them she mentioned the young soldier she had spoken to on the quay that first Liberation Day. She now put out an appeal on a radio show to see if he was still around. Jimmy Cooper heard about this from a friend, and got in touch with Nan. He was married and living in Scotland at the time and Nan met both Jimmy and his wife. Later, after Jimmy’s wife died, he got in touch with Nan again, eventually proposing marriage. She accepted.
They were married on 27th November 2004 in Spalding, Lincolnshire nearly 60 years after that first brief encounter. Happily the event was captured nationally as well as locally. You can see Nan and Jimmy on this YouTube clip which also contains rare Occupation footage as well as celebrations of the 60th anniversary of the Liberation. Towards the end it features snippets of my personal hero Bob Le Sueur. It is well worth watching.
Nan and Jimmy spent nine happy years together. Sadly Jimmy died last year. Nan herself is still going strong, lives in Spalding, and will be 99 next month.
I’m grateful to my good friend Sue Le Ruez, Nan’s niece, and her sister Gill for keeping me straight on Nan’s story. Sue has been one of Jersey’s top distance runners over very many years.
What a wonderful story, Roy. Yes – true love never dies. I’m heading over to youtube to watch that clip now 😀
Also – thank you for putting some of Leonard Cohen’s wonderful words in this post (one of the best songwriter/poets of our time) 🙂
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Morning Dianne, hope you’re well. It is a great story isn’t it? Amazing how that ‘spark’ stayed alive throughout their happy first marriages. I’m sure you’ll like the video.
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I loved the video! 😀
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That’s good. It’s nice to actually see the people involved plus a bit of context.
That Occupation footage is chilling. We could easily all be speaking German now and eating sauerkraut 😦
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Thank you for sharing Nan and Jimmy’s story…I love stories like this, Roy! Thank you to Sue and Gill as well.
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Hello Jill! Yes there’s a book in this one somewhere. There must be a lot still untold about Nan, it can’t have been roses all the way from 1945 which is how I’ve told it here.
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Roy, what a great romance. So heart-warming!
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Isn’t it just Jean, a counterpoint to a cynical age.
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You really bring Jersey to the world, Roy. Thanks for sharing so many interesting stories.
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Thank you Julie. It’s a story that I’m sure will only grow with the years. I think the family are still a little surprised when people take an interest 🙂 They certainly represent all that is good about Jersey.
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What a lovely story, Roy. If Leonard Cohen sang it, it must be true.
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Isn’t it exactly the kind of love that Cohen would write about and tell the world Fran?
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Ah, that is amazing – what a lovely story to emerge from a brief encounter.
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It takes a special kind of love story to have a cynic like me write about it Jenny. Amazing, a mere spark fanned into life so many years later.
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What a great story – thanks for including the youtube clip as well, so interesting.
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Ah thank you Letizia. Hope you got a flavour of this beautiful island from the clip.
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What a beautiful story! So incredible that they came together after all of those years. Cool video!
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I thought a romantic like you would approve Britt.
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What a lovely story! My favorite quote in the clip is when Jimmy says, “If I’d known I was going to live this long, I would’ve taken better care of myself!”
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Yes, you can imagine how Nan was intrigued by this cheeky young chappie all those years earlier.
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That’s a great story, Roy, truly a happy ending. And what an amazing lady Nan is – 99 years old is incredible!
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Hi Janna, yes indeed. Her niece says that now she’s just slightly puzzled that she can’t dash around quite as quickly as she thinks she ought 🙂
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What a great story, to find each other again after all that time.
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Isn’t it just Andrea. Especially as both Nan and Jimmy had other long and fulfilling marriages beforehand. A great story that just needs to be told.
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I didn’t know how it could get any better, but I loved part 2 even better than part 1! GREAT story! Thanks for sharing, Roy.
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Hi Naomi, yes it would be difficult to make up a beautiful story like that. The last I heard was that Nan is still eager, in her own mind, to head out and carry on her preaching and pastoral work and can’t quite understand that she is 99 and just can’t! Young at heart.
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That is just amazing, Roy! We need people like that to inspire us and set an example of how to properly age. Bea was inspired by the 92 year old librarian who led them on tours of Vilnius. Vanya was working as a teenager at the ghetto library and escaped from the ghetto in Vilnius to take up arms with the resistance fighters hiding in the forest until after the war. The day after she escaped her entire family was murdered with the rest of the Jews, but she is still a librarian and skipping over the cobbled streets, on her feet for hours at a time, and the youngsters she is showing around can hardly keep up with her. We need these people in our lives!
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Wonderful story Naomi. I’ve been far more aware in recent years that old people (who we are often guilty of dismissing) were young once with their own – often incredible – stories to tell. But too often they either choose not to tell them or else no one listens.
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When we are younger we don’t always have the perspective needed to wonder about these things, but by the time we formulate the questions, it is often too late to ask. That is saddest of all.
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